Is my boyfriend tired of me? How do I get him back?
Okay hi, well here’s the situation. Ive been dating this guy for now 6 months and I love him. But recently I just found out he’s been lying to me about where he goes who he’s with etc. I confronted him on it and he basically said he just doesn’t want me to be upset and he needs his "me time". Well I completely respect that and understand it… until I realized… We hardly talk anymore and when we do we fight. So honestly I don’t know is he tired of me? Or how do I get him back to how we used to be when we first started dating.
it always happens. You may have your ups and downs, but if you guys make it through it all, that shows you guys were meant for each other. If it doesn’t, it just means it wasn’t really meant to be. A relationship is all about being happy who you’re with, its not like a videogame, where you like it for a little while, then start to get bored with it. If it is, you’ve got a problem. Try to be a little more spontaneous, get exciting, do different things. Just go back to what you were like before, remind him why you guys first hooked up 
hope things work out. :]
my advice: talk to him about how you are feeling. tell him your thoughts. maybe he doesn’t realize all that is going on. maybe there is an issue that you two haven’t resolved or possibly something you may have done that upset him. you have to be willing to listen too. even though you don’t think you did anything…who knows? i’m not saying that you did… just suggesting…
Hope this helps and everything works out
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it always happens. You may have your ups and downs, but if you guys make it through it all, that shows you guys were meant for each other. If it doesn’t, it just means it wasn’t really meant to be. A relationship is all about being happy who you’re with, its not like a videogame, where you like it for a little while, then start to get bored with it. If it is, you’ve got a problem. Try to be a little more spontaneous, get exciting, do different things. Just go back to what you were like before, remind him why you guys first hooked up
hope things work out. :]
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i think that maybe you’re being too clingy and you need to give him his space.
try being a little distant for a while.
and then when you hang out try not fight and be nice.
try being more seductive when making out? lol
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Talk to him again and explain how you feel. If he’s still the same way, I’m sorry to say it’s pretty obvious he wants out. It happens in relationships, you just have to try and move on.
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ALL guys are LIARS so you should NOT think that he is getting tired of you hes prob. just hanging with his buds and you should lie to the liar. EXAMPLE: say that you are going to starbucks or cofee shop and have youre friends pick you up in thier car!! lol Try it
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This is the one situation I will never understand how to fix..
A few months I caught myself in this situation and I had a feeling that I might lose him soon, and I did.
It got worse and worse. I think at that point they’re already lost interest and or found someone else. There was no hope for my situation but I hope you have better luck.. honestly, I never asked him back then up front what exactly was going on.. and where he thought our relationship was going. I wish I had, you should tell him your concerns and talk to him about it to find out if there is any hope left for your relationship. I don’t mean to scare you, I mean.. plenty of relationships get resolved at this point but what I’m really saying is it’s good to catch it while it’s still early.. before he completely slips out of your grasp (like mine did).
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Hi back.
Yes, sadly he’s tired of you. And….okay, well, more than just tired. He lost complete interest in you.
Before you wonder, Why? I want you to think back to all of the times you’ve spent together. It’s infuriating to have to utter this, but did you -possibly- ever subconsciously push him away, or be too clingy or needy? Maybe too jealous and protective?
Think about it for a split moment. It might be kind of reluctant, but it might be worth it. Ask a friend if you need to.
Don’t read on until you’ve thought about this.
Ready? Okay, well, if you decided "No", then it’s all on him. It’s not your fault.
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