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For a year me and this guy were seeing each other… it was never ‘official’ but we lived together, slept in the same bed every night, went out together, if we hooked up with someone else we told each other and it was Ok.

So lately we have been fighting… ALOT!! Everyday we fight. I leave him, but that night I end up back there… I kick him out… that night he ends up back there… it never ends…

except last week we woke up at 4am and had the biggest fight. I ended up packing all my stuff and going home. I have spoken to him once since then and that was returning his call and asked him to throw my number away and don’t call me again.

I really want him to though, and if he doesn’t want to call, I want a way to show him what he is missing. What are some ways to get him thinking of me again…

Ignore him,don t be a woman just be a woman!

I moved to Indiana in late December of 2010 to live with my fiance and her cousin. He has made fun of me, humiliated me, and belittled me in public ever since I have been here. I have come to the point that I will not talk to him, be around him, or acknowledge his existence. If he talks to me I give short and simple answers. I wont even look at him when he looks my way, its just how much I don’t like him. She calls it his defense mechanism but that still doesn’t make it right. She just told me tonight that by doing that I am being rude and I am treating him like he is sub-human. And that she would not marry me unless I get better. I still have that feeling that I am not ready to forgive him yet, probably because I haven’t gotten a simple "Im sorry". How do I forgive him to keep the relationship I have with her?

Your fiance needs to tell cousin dearest to shut the heck up and find some other place to live! Your girlfriend’s cousin is a trouble making interloper and that will be a deal breaker when her family shows disrespect. She will allow others to treat you like that! Anyone that talks to my husband or I like that are never welcome and I don’t care if they are relatives! We are first and anyone that would have the nerve to insult is shown the door! Tell that A hole that you would love to punch him in the jaw and break his teeth, but he is not worth going to jail and tell future wifey that she is a b word and take back the engagement ring and live with cousin! A couple need to forsake family because living with family is a big mistake when they can’t respect boundaries! Run and don’t look back and I rarely advise that. It is either the choice. You or cousin!

Hi, i’m only 14 and before Christmas last year i split up with my boyfriend. He was my first and dearest love, but i really want to get him back. One minute he will flirt with me, the next i’ll see him flirting with other girls, but i still can’t get over him. I need him back

Oh, that i hard kiddo. It rarely works out for someone. But somehow last week I got my ex back but then again its nearly impossible!

My cousin and i used to be best friends. We hung out all the time and told each other everything. At the same time he is going out with this girl that i have known for a while. We are both sixteen and have gone to the same schools since sixth grade.(he is 19) We instantly became really good friends and also started hanging out a lot. In the begining it was just a favor for him because he wanted us to get along. Well the thing about this girl is that she is a slut. She has slept around with a lot of guys in town and she continues to flirt around even though she is in a relationship.(she has cheated a few times) And the funny thing is that she does this all in front of me! Everyone has warned him and continues to about this girl but he does not listen and has broken off all friendships with anyone who has tried to warn him. Well because of her flirting i stopped being her friend because it killed me to see her doing that to my cousin. But now me and my cousin havnt spoken or hung out in three months, which for us is a like a lifetime considering how close we were. And its all because me and his girlfriend dont talk. He even dropped out of college for her. Why does he not get it? So many people have told him all this stuff she does with evidence that is true but he just believes whatever she says when he comfronts her. I want my cousin back:(

He maybe in love with the girl, and doesn’t want to believe it. I would say go pound your bestie or ex bestie tell her to tell him, or stop being a slut, and be serious with him, or use you may be pretty and can screw around now, but when you are in your 30′s you are going to be fat, and have no one, if you keep going on like this.
You should also call up your cousin and see if he wants to talk to you on the phone.
I hope this helped.

an i broke all the rules about getting an ex back
i love him though not like his new g/f dose i can love him better plus i asked him if he still likes me he said " a little"
ive been trying ever since we broke up in december

First, I’m sorry, I don’t think your ex B/F still like you, because if he likes you, definitely he will not put you down. second I don’t advise girls exerting any effort to bring back a lost B/F, they have to find us and take us back.