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How do I forgive her Cousin to save our relationship?
I moved to Indiana in late December of 2010 to live with my fiance and her cousin. He has made fun of me, humiliated me, and belittled me in public ever since I have been here. I have come to the point that I will not talk to him, be around him, or acknowledge his existence. If he talks to me I give short and simple answers. I wont even look at him when he looks my way, its just how much I don’t like him. She calls it his defense mechanism but that still doesn’t make it right. She just told me tonight that by doing that I am being rude and I am treating him like he is sub-human. And that she would not marry me unless I get better. I still have that feeling that I am not ready to forgive him yet, probably because I haven’t gotten a simple "Im sorry". How do I forgive him to keep the relationship I have with her?
Your fiance needs to tell cousin dearest to shut the heck up and find some other place to live! Your girlfriend’s cousin is a trouble making interloper and that will be a deal breaker when her family shows disrespect. She will allow others to treat you like that! Anyone that talks to my husband or I like that are never welcome and I don’t care if they are relatives! We are first and anyone that would have the nerve to insult is shown the door! Tell that A hole that you would love to punch him in the jaw and break his teeth, but he is not worth going to jail and tell future wifey that she is a b word and take back the engagement ring and live with cousin! A couple need to forsake family because living with family is a big mistake when they can’t respect boundaries! Run and don’t look back and I rarely advise that. It is either the choice. You or cousin!
What can I do to help save my relationship with my girlfriend?
I have been dating this girl for a week now and for some sick twisted reason I am already thinking of breaking up. She has done nothing wrong, and is exactly what I thought I wanted in a girlfriend. Ever since we’ve started dating though she has hung out with me ALL the time. I feel like I have no free time anymore and feel like this can’t work. The problem is that this always happens, I have never had a relationship last more than a month and always feel this way when I am dating someone. I don’t know whats wrong with me or how I could fix this. If anybody has any solutions please tell me, because I am at a loss.
well, you need to be completely open with each other. Ask her what she wants and how much privacy she wanted despite the relationship that you have with her…Tell her openly what you wanted or expects from her and how much privacy you wanted… that you need to give her time and that you needed time for yourself as well to do the things that interests you and you can talk about it later…
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How to Save Your Marriage or Relationship from Divorce or Break Up Using NLP Part 3
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Step 3 to creating a truly lasting and happy relationship is to create new positive anchors. Some couples have passionate fights and then passionate make up sessions. Well making love can certainly help to anchor very positive physical and emotional feelings of love. But physical pleasure alone will never create a lasting and fulfilling relationship. There has to be more and deeper connections.
So now your job is to think of things that make you feel very good. And let your partner think of things that make him or her feel good. Make a list of them. Maybe you like to go to the beach and play frisbee with your partner and your children. Do this and anchor that feeling so that it is associated with your partner. You might listen to certain uplifting happy music and share the feeling with your partner. Look at her and touch her. What gives you a feeling of being spiritually uplifted? If you go together to a spiritual service or activity and when you feel the peak of inspiration and joy look at your partner and touch him you anchor a very positive feeling as you begin to associate deep feelings of joy and spiritual fulfillment with your partner .
Enjoy eating delicious food with your partner and share that experience so it is anchored. If you have felt a lot of stress and anxiety in the past, do something that makes you feel very relaxed. Go to yoga class together and every time when you are totally and completely relaxed then hug your partner so that feeling is anchored. Also do something exciting like going to the car races, football games, or travel and go to some exciting destination and share that experience. Go hiking together, snow skiing or something that is exciting so that you not only anchor relaxing feelings but also the feeling of excitement. What makes you feel romantic? Think of all those things, the courtship feeling when you are just met your partner do them again and anchor them.
At the same time couples need time alone so sometimes it’s good to enjoy things separately because you and your partner like different things. Let your wife go to the mall and the salon. Husbands go fishing or hiking or maybe you need to go to the football game with your male friends.
A friend of mine who married a good friend of mine while they were very young shortly aftergraduation from high school shared with me her secret for a relationship that has lasted for many years. She calls it the” sex and fishing trip” method. First they have wild passionate sex. Then she sends him off on a fishing trip. He enjoys the time at the lake, no doubt thinking about how much he loves his wife the whole time. And she does her favorite things while he’s gone. She swears this has kept their marriage happy for 30 years.
If you interrupt the old pattern, collapse the old anchor and build a new positive anchor that makes you feel ecstatic then you will create a relationship that is truly ecstatic happy and fulfilling on all levels.
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How To Use Groupon To Save Money
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