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how do i save my relationship?
i have been with my partner for over a year and we have children together. we are happy most of the time but he cheated on me with his ex nearly a year ago, i forgave him but we broke up a couple of weeks ago and then friday he took me away for the weekend and then we got back together 2nights ago. anyway when we were apart for the 2weeks he started meeting up with a different ex, who says he is just a good friend now altho he has slept with her whilst being friends in the past, i messaged her off his phone telling her he is back with me but im so paranoid that he will leave me for her as he has said if i dont stop being paranoid he will go and be with her. i no i made the mistake of taking him back after he cheated on me but im realy in love with him and want to be with him but polite comments will be greatful thanks.
please help as i dont want him 2 hurt me again and i dont want him to leave me for her. how can i stop being so paranoid?
He is using emotional blackmail on you. Don’t allow it. You should not worry whether he leaves you for his ex. You should be concerned with yourself and the children. Decide what you want, and take it with its good and bad, and stick to your decision. Nothing is perfect. Let him take who he wants. See how long that will last. Every woman he takes, will have to share his time and finances with your children, and will never feel totally secure with him. You have what is most precious – the children. He is not that precious to anyone by his behaviour, not to you, not to the children, and not to any ex he may fancy. That explains why the first ex did not last.
Sort out the maintenance first and an allowance for you to take care of them. The boot will soon be on the other foot. Chin up girl. you are a winner already.
How to really know when it's time to end it
Knowing when to end a destructive personal relationship takes focus and guts. There are a few determining factors that can let you know if you should continue giving your relationship a try or if you will be better off parting ways.
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How can i save my relationship?
im 16, shes 17 we’ve been together nearly 2 years and being a same sex couple have endured many problems related with childish homophobic abuse from many people at school. Our relationship was difficult from the start especially with coming out to our parents, mine are laid back and were totally fine with it but hers were less enthusiastic. Her mother and father clearly weren’t happy with us being together and are determined to not let any of their friends or family know about our relationship so from the start I’ve basically been their daughter’s dirty little secret. Time has always been a problem as well, with much negotiation during a phone call between my girlfriend’s angry mother and my awesome father we got one day a week together (friday) with school and her driving lessons (which are always on friday) we are now spending even less time together. After being together nearly 2 years I’m becoming increasingly upset at the lack of time we spend together and the lack of effort on her part. I have given up going on holiday, seeing old friends and even seeing my own brother and other close family just to see her, she has never done anything like this for me. She goes to see bands with friends (who are also my friends) and doesn’t even think to invite me; she makes plans on days that we’re meant to spend together and generally makes no effort whatsoever to see me and just makes empty promises. She’s generally a very busy person so am I in the wrong for wanting more from this relationship? I’m starting to feel like an unloved pastime, but when we’re together all our problems seem to go away -apart from at school or out in general … no public displays of affection allowed, if I try to hold her hand It’ll get slapped away- so I really don’t know what to do, I love her but this relationship is making me suffer. I really need some advice… anything!!
.No different to any other relationship. You have to create opportunity and take advantage of every situation.Remember her task is much more difficult as her parents think you’re the devil incarnate
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Saving My Marriage – How To Save My Marriage
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Are you desperate to save your marriage from divorce? If yes, then in about 2mins you will hear the solution to that question. So grab a chair and watch this, for you’ll be hearing the key to save your marriage.
This is one common misconception: You can’t work on your marriage if the other party is uninterested. This is absolutely wrong.
Don’t believe that saving the marriage will ONLY work if both the husband and the wife anticipate the same result. Once one of you recognizes that there is a need to fix the marriage, then that first step can be taken. It may take a while before the spouse will actually respond to that need, but for as long as the need is acknowledged, strategies may be formulated to keep the marriage from falling apart.
One very effective way to save your marriage is to rekindle that lost passion in your relationship. That is to keep the flame of passion blazing. By treating your spouse as if you were still courting each other, you will make it a that much easier to stay in good terms with your significant other. And by treating your spouse as if you were still courting each other, you will make it that much easier to stay in good terms with your significant other.
Of course marriages don’t get fixed overnight. Just as the problems get built over time, they also get fixed in a gradual manner. It takes time for the couple to see that something is not right in the relationship. There are different crises that different couples face and each crisis require a different approach.
Luckily I found a website that contains advises and techniques that will surely guide you in winning your spouse and your marriage back. The site has a system that will share you not only the key to revive your relationship but also to make it stronger and better. A lot of reviews have been shared on it to prove its effectiveness and I suggest you visit the site so you can prove it for yourself.
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