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my question is up there lol but please help. or give any ideas. "were drifting". do you know how to fix it? also what website would it be on? any ideas would be appritiated. thanks in advance. 10 points to anyone who helps thanks

Try reading this free e-book called 97 steps to a happy relationship. I’ve read it (a while ago) and I still think about the advice given in it.

Everything was going great between me and the guy i’ve been talking to, then out of nowhere he starts acting weird. An example would be how we used to text all the time he would usually be the one to start the conversation, now he doesnt text me, and when i text him he takes about an hour to reply, and just seems like he doesn’t care. Another example would be how he used to do anything to be able to see me, and when he couldn’t he would be real sweet and apologetic. Now i have to be the one to ask to hang out, and most of the time he says he cant. I’ve asked him if i have done something topiss him off and he says " why would i be mad". So i have no idea if im just overreacting, he’s trying to phase me out, or i did do something wrong. If he is either of these things please give me some advice on how to get him back.

.Bailey it’s pointless to try to cling onto a hopeless romance. Whatever has caused his sudden change of attitude. You can’t alter. So just go with the flow and see what transpires

My friend made a big mistake for dumping him and wants him back but hes already dateing another gurl and i wanna help her what should she do? and me what should i do to help her out? shes really depressed and sad without him and i need something to get him to brake up with his GF??

Don’t have her try and destroy his current relationship — that’s not the right way to go about things. Sure, it may work some times, but if discovered by the ex boyfriend, it’ll probably ruin (forever) your friends’ chances of getting back with her ex.

Usually, it’s quite hard on a guy when he’s dumped, in ways that are different for girls. Guys, more often than not, have emotional hurt — like girls — but also have to deal with the blow to their ego / machismo. Sometimes, that blow to their ego is much greater than the emotional pain.

My advice — give the guy his space. Don’t interfere, don’t try to sabatoge the relationship, but let him know that she’s interested in remaining friends. Subtly — don’t smother the guy at all. Rebound relationships aren’t usually long-lasting, and out-of-spite relationships are just pointless (because they aren’t real in so many ways). Either way, have her wait for him, let him know that she’s there, tell him that she’s sorry for hurting him, and continue living and enjoying life. Again though — don’t interfere — there’s more bad that can come out of that than good.

Hey youtubers
Here is the final part of my marathon.
Omg it is already up to 20!
I am going up to part 25, then i will stop.
At this stage i dont know if i am doing a season 2.
The reason is because I don’t know what I’m going to do it on.
Anyway we will talk closer to the problem, Enjoy!!
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How could it be that I was gone for close to a year and yet it feels like everything I did, everyone I met is just a dream, a vague memory, a memory that is no longer mine. Its been a month since I have been brought home and yet I find myself checking my phone every day, but as always I am disappointed to see not one of them has even tried to save our friendship, Taylor hasnt even tried to save our relationship, in a way I always knew that in the end we would be break apart but why did it have to be so soon. Why?

“Selena!” My mother yelled from downstairs.
“Coming!” I yell back, I roll my eyes and slip on my dressing gown and descend the stairs.
“Why arent you dressed?!” She asks me shocked, looking me up and down.
“What do you mean? It is 11:00pm, I’m going to bed” I reply.
Her eyes widen and she looks like she is about to explode. “You are on The Late Show!!”
“What? When were you planning on telling me this?” I fire back.
“I’ve been telling you all week!” she retorts.
“No you havent!” I shout
“Go get dressed now!” she points her finger to the staircase. “That is an order”
“Dont flatter yourself mother, I’m the star, dont pretend like you forget” I smirk and walk upstairs.

North Carolina
“She still hasnt called, its been a month!” Taylor groans.
“Maybe she is waiting for your call Taylor” Chelsea rolls her eyes.
Man can you stop, its been a month, she is gone, get over it! Anyway don’t you have to get back to your job?” David sighs.
“How could you say that?! She was your friend also” Taylor glares at David.
“I know, but I have accepted the fact that I know she wont come back, with a mother like that she cant!” David retorts.
“There is a chance; you have to have a little faith!” Taylor replies.
“Yeah, well my faith went down the toilet when Taylor broke up with me” he sighs.
“You think that is bad? Joe cheated on me, cheating bastard!” Chelsea shouts.
“Lucas cheated again, so I broke up with him” Miley shrugs.
“Oh yippee!” Nick says sarcastically.
“Oh, off!” Miley hits him.
“Make me princess!” Nick fires back.
“Guys, just stop! You obviously are crazy about each other but you wont admit it nor shut up!” Chelsea throws a pillow at them.
“I am not crazy about that pig” Miley rolls her eyes.
“Bullshit, remember” Nick smirks and starts to mimic her. “Of course I like you, I might even love you!”
“I was young and naive” Miley glares at him.
“Young? It was this year you idiot!” Nick shakes his head disgusted.
“Oh, Jesus Christ!” David groans.

Back Home
It was 3:00am when I got home from the interview. I am exhausted and tomorrow I have to wake up at 6:00 because we need to get ready for my music video. I started to walk up the long, spiral stairs when my mother stopped me by clearing her throat.
“Yes?” I say turning around.
“I am getting the maid to wake you up at 5:30″ she glared at me.
“That means I have 2 and a half hour of sleep, I will be exhausted” I shake my head, completely off.
“Get over it Selena” she said before walking away.
Fuck her, that bitch!

I found myself crying all the time, oh dam those tears, I wouldnt let myself fall apart because of one jerk, I couldnt do that to myself. Even he drags me headfirst, completely fearless. I wipe the tears, delete his number and erase every memory I had of him, promises in the end is an excuse, a way of letting you down softly, so that is what Im going to do. Move on.

North Carolina
Taylors Pov:
I said goodbye to my friends and started to run, I needed to be with her, Ive fallen for her and I am not letting this go. I board the plane and sit down, I pray that I will be there soon; I hope I am not too late; maybe Ive waited too long. No, no, I am not letting myself think that way. She loves me; she will take me back….right?
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Did you like the marathon??
xx

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Firstly….sorry I stuffed up the AR!! Am too tired to fix it atm.
I probably bore everyone silly with these kind of uploads but I do them because my primary way of avoiding emotion, (not counting DRUGS of course), is by intellectualizing.
I therefore try to avoid anything where I use language, as it’s way too easy for me!
This one is about my relationship with drugs
….heroin primarily and syringes in particular!
Yes I have a needle fetish and altho my drug of choice was heroin, even before I’d tried it, anything that fit in a syringe was ‘my preference’!!
If given the choice between smoking heroin or injecting another drug….I would more than likely have chosen the injection?
Anyway, I do these to help myself….altho I do hope some of you get ‘something; from them too.
If ur young and considering going down the road of casual drug use….if there is the SLIGHTEST chance that u have an addictive personality, or if u want to take drugs to avoid ANYTHING…for sake, take my word…DON’T DO IT!!
I injected for the first time at 17yrs old….I am now 46 and it is still the hardest thing I face on a daily basis.
If u think transition is difficult and uncomfortable, addiction is 100X worse….plus, it NEVER ENDS!! (Lecture over!)

Apologies if you have sent me a mail that I have yet to answer….I will get to them, eventually.
I know, and am reminded constantly, that I’m slack, as we say in Australia.
Hope ur all doing well?

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