Archive for June, 2010
What do I do to fix my controlling relationship?
Ive been with my boyfriend for a little over a year and a half. We are a happy couple most of the time, but when one of us wants to go hang out with our friends with out the other there is always a big fight. We both try to control each other and it needs to change because the fights that we have and the hurtful things that are said back and forth are really bringing us apart. We fight at least once a week because of this issue and we talk but nothing ever changes. Im beginning to think that me and him just arent meant to be. But I still love him so much. I dont know whether its worth trying any more because i dont see anything changing. Any advice to what we can do please?
I dont see the issue with hanging out with friends. As far as im concerned when you are in a ‘serious relationship’ you hang out with friends of the same gender. Serious relationships can be thought of as a test run at marriage. When you are married you wouldnt expect your significant other to hang out with the opposite sex when you are not arround that is really innapropriate. There is also ‘the relationship’ where you guys do your own thing and hang out with whoever you want to whenever you want to. I guess where all the problems come from is that people do not understand what type of relationship they are in. From what I have seen and know the more that any person hangs out with the opposite sex the more that person will start to grow on them and eventually lead to something else. Im not saying that every guy is going to want to get into your pants just most of them. Therefore, if you truly love your guy you shouldnt be hanging out with guys. Also, as far as male intentions go I believe that guys are more in tune with what guys think. Thats why they tend to tell there gfs what to do. Its like putting your gf in a lions cage. You know that the girl wont do anything. But she will be so afraid of the lion and the fact that it can do whatever it wants to her. which scares the guy. In my opinion I believe you guys should make friends with other couples. Going out with single girls and guys can be a serious breaker in a ‘serious relationship’ also discuss what you want out of the relationship.
How to get my ex back?
How can get him back because he said we always fight and im mean and changed and always sad .. I wanna show him Im still that girl he DID fall in love with .. we broke up.. and wont even try to get back.. I have class with him starting next sem.. How shud i dress and act and do.. say to get him back? I really want him back PLEASE HELP! BTW i have french with him next semester?
It’s counter-intuitive, but the best way to get someone back is to get over them. Get over it. Be a happy girl who has fun with people and is not moping around. He may see the girl he fell in love with again, and if he doesn’t, what do you care? You’re over him!
HOW DO TO GET MY EX BOYFRIEND BACK?!?
Me and him broke up 3 days ago but we were dating for 1 month..I know that’s not a long time but I knew him for like 2yrs…anyways we broke up cause we didn’t really act like we were dating, we acted more like friends….I would say.. But anyways. Its not like I can ignore him or anything because I work with him…and I want him to want me back..
Or atleast be friends…he doesn’t even ask me to hang out anymore…
-but anyways how would I get him back?..
If the only time I mostly see him anymore is at work.. And we were uniforms at work.
Im 17 and so is he….
-Idk what to do.. I want him to want me back so badly that he has no choice to ask me out!..
uh talk to him about it?
MON 11:29 PM – Build-a-solid-relationship
Minute(ish)-a-day Vlogs 
In this vlog, we build a solid relationship by bringing our talents and traits to the table. Let me know which numbers correspond to your traits.
Question: What books do you recommend?
Also, thanks to everyone who came to talk with last night on blogtv
01. I will apologize when I’m wrong
02. I will accept your apology
03. I will keep up with the news
04. You can have boys night
05. I won’t take you too literally
06. I’ll laugh at your jokes
07. Even the yo’ mama ones
08. Even the knock knock ones
09. We’ll play sports
10. We can stay in whenever
11. I won’t rub my greatness in your face
12. I’ll tell you when I’m mad
13. I won’t play games with you
14. We can talk politics
15. We can talk girly things
16. I won’t drag you shopping with
17. I won’t care about physical appearance
18. I wont’ make you change clothes
19. You don’t need flowers
20. I will care about how your well-being
21. I won’t cheat
22. I’ll share my crayons
23. I’ll share my books
24. I won’t buy a crazy animal
25. I won’t hire someone to spy on you
26. I won’t ask friends to spy on you
27. I will never spy on you
28. I’ll never touch your shh
29. I’ll appreciate the little things
30. Your gestures won’t go unnoticed
31. I’ll go to events with you
32. I’ll understand if you don’t want to join me
33. I don’t need to know a play-by-play
34. I won’t trust rumors
35. Your opinion matters to me
36. Won’t be too mad if you don’t put seat down
37. same with toilet paper
38. Don’t care if you show emotion
39. I’ll sharpen your pencils
40. I’ll alphabetize your DVD collection
41. I’m good at throwing parties
42. It’s okay if we don’t share music interests completely
43. Won’t belittle you
44. I’ll try not to use bad words
45. I’ll compliment you
46. I’ll have the time
47. I’m down for spontaneity
48. I’ll share food
49. I won’t get mad if you call me by someone else’s name
50. insert other here
Duration : 0:3:57
TRUEFATE (2010) – response to Serendipity (original ending)
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TrueFate (2010)
Has your love ever left you? Have you ever fought dearly for your love? Based on the Serendipity (2001), TrueFate (2010) portrays the unseen events of Jonathan Tregor’s breakup with his fiancé Halley Buchanan on her wedding day. Halley must endure the truth of her groom’s serendipitous love affair, and truly fight to get him back. In the process, she learns more about truelove, accepts her true fate, and becomes able to set him and her free. This film is about the everyday love, and how it might just be as beautiful as the serendipitous love.
Director’s Notes:
This film was inspired by the great feats of everyday people for their love ones. Far too often everyday love is pushed aside for the illusions of a more grandeur love. Serendipity (2001) does just this by glorifying a fateful, serendipitous love affair. TrueFate (2010) uses the same story, but glorifies the everyday love of a fiancée in waiting. It is the hopes of the film to illuminate an alternative view of what amazing love is and can be.
Because TrueFate (2010) poses a hypothetical series of events and conversation not shown in Serendipity (2001), two versions of the film was made to foil contrasting reactions. The two restriction of the film is that the groom has to end happy, and that the annulment of the engagement is completed in the grooms and bride’s final meeting. There are no right answers, only ones that connect to us more.
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Duration : 0:10:17