Archive for November, 2010
Can We Really Survive Infidelity
Infidelity is hurtful and, more often than not, it ends a perfectly good marriage. The lies and the betrayal is sometimes too hard to take. There are, however, ways to survive infidelity and all it takes it a lot of hard work and some time.
Many negative consequences result from infidelity in a marriage. One of these things is the lashing out of the injured partner. It is normal to feel angry but the level of anger and the actions they take might ruin the marriage and the chances of survival.
When trust is broken the jilted partner may feel as if he or she cannot trust the other partner. This is frustrating for both parties because and sometimes there might not seem to be a way to resolve the problem. This is not true and there are ways in which this trust can be restores, it simply takes a lot of work.
When infidelity has occurred in a marriage there are steps that either one or both parties need to take in order to move forward. They can also stagnate until a decision is made. Stagnation occurs when both parties do not want to leave but they do not find a way to work through the situation.
When this is the case, both parties can quickly become unhappy in the marriage. For some reason or other, neither is ready to take a step in any direction. This includes getting a divorce or working through the infidelity.
If they choose to divorce then the marriage cannot be saved. Either partner could feel that the damage is too extensive. They could also feel that there is no possible solution to the hurt and betrayal that they are feeling.
Should both parties decide to work through it the most important decision that must be made between the two of them is that they will work hard. They will work together in order to survive it. This will make their marriage stronger.
A professional should be contacted and the couple is advised to go to counseling. This is a good option because it may help them both work on problems related to the infidelity. It might also help with other problems in the marriage also.
They will show both parties the road to gaining back the trust that was lost. They will also show them the steps that they have to take to build a trust that was broken by the betrayal. Even though this might be difficult it is the most likely chance both partners will have of fixing the marriage.
Infidelity is a big problem is marriages today and the rates are steadily rising. Marriages are not as strong as they once were and this is because it takes a lot more work to make a marriage last than most people think. Counseling might also help both couples gain a realistic perception of it.
Communication as well as information regarding infidelity itself may help the couple understand what happened. It may also explain why it happened the way it did. This is a good way to start the healing and begin a new life of real trust and respect within the marriage.
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i broke up with him but i want him back!!!?
alright, well i started dating him at the end of the year. (first boyfriend) and he was real sweet around me , but that was when it was just me and him. his brother told me that he caught my boyfriend watching p0rn and made me promis not to tell.(hes only 13!!) i couldnt look at him the same way for some reason, i felt so insecure even though i didnt know if it was true or not my friend told me to break up with him if i felt this way. i really liked him but i just had 2.
the summer passed, and i forgot about him, but as i got back to schoool i started liking him again. im like dying to hold his hand and hug him. hes back and hotter than ever!!!!!
when i walk by, i see him look at me when i walk by, but he doesnt smile like he used to. im not sure hes still into me.
help? i want him!!!
please dont say tell him how u feel cuz i cant do that! and he doesnt have a phone
and i dont care about the whole p0rn thing, boys will be boys 
also….. why did i feel like crap when i heard he watched p0rn?
When guys watch "adult" movies, girls realize that guys can enjoy sex without emotional attachment. It throws them off. It is VERY common among guys, but don’t worry about it too much.
If you want to get back together with him, talk to him. Tell him you miss him and ask him if he misses you. If he honestly misses you, and chances are good that he does, he may be open to a reconciliation.
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Hum Aapke Hain Koun! – 15/17 – Bollywood Movie – Salman Khan & Madhuri Dixit
“Hum Aapke Hain Koun – 1994 Directed By : Sooraj R. Barjatya Starring : Salman Khan, Madhuri Dixit, Renuka Shahane, Mohnish Bahl, Anupam Kher, Reema Lagoo, Aloknath, Laxmikant Berde, Bindu, Ajit Vachhani Dilip Joshi, Priya Arun, Satish shah, Himani Shivpuri Music Director : Raam Laxman
Synopsis : Prem, a top student, is learning the ropes of business under his elder brother Rajesh and his uncle Kailashnath, a big industrialist. In another town, Nisha is studying computer science and is the darling of her elder sister, Pooja, and her parents, Professor Choudhry and Kamladevi. Fate brings the two families together and this results in the the betrothal of Rajesh and Pooja. At the wedding, Prem meets Nisha and falls in love with this carefree woman. With Pooja as the woman of the house, joy knows no bounds in Prem’s family. Months pass by and Pooja becomes pregnant. Nisha is invited to come and stay with her sister and attend the traditional function before the child’s birth. Nisha’s arrival is like a dream come true for Prem. Nisha stays there until the birth of the child, taking over the household chores, and becoming very much a part of the family. In soft whispers, Prem and Nisha commit their love for each other and secretly dream of spending a lifetime together. Then fate strikes a cruel blow when Pooja dies after a sudden fall down a flight of stairs. Because of this tragedy, life in the house comes to a standstill. Rajesh worries about the future of his motherless child, and it causes his health to deteriorate. Nisha’s father suggests that Nisha should get married to Rajesh and become the mother of Pooja’s child. Prem and Nisha decide to sacrifice their love for the sake of the family. Fate intervenes once again when Rajesh comes to know the truth behind Prem and Nisha’s sacrifice. Putting his child into Nisha’s arms, Rajesh unites and blesses the two lovers, whose hearts long to belong together.
Rajesh (Mohnish Bahl) runs the business for his dad, Kailashnath (Alok Nath), and is an eligible bachelor. The family wants him to marry Pooja Choudhury (Renuka Shahane), to which he agrees. With great gusto the families get together to plan the engagement and marriage ceremonies. At these ceremonies, Rajesh’s younger brother, Prem (Salman Khan) meets Pooja’s younger sister, Nisha (Madhur Dixit), and after a few meetings both fall in love with each other. After a few months, Pooja gives birth to a baby, but unfortunately, dies shortly thereafter. Rajesh is devastated, and the families get together and decide that it will be in the best interests of both the child and Rajesh, if Nisha were to take Pooja’s place and marry Rajesh. Hence the title, simply translated means: What Is My Relationship With You? No doubt this question will linger in the minds of both Nisha and Prem, who are all set to face a new relationship.
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